Friday, April 21

I am still batteling

My advice to all women every where be careful with whom you have children with.
Mothers show this to your daughters, let them know what a struggle it is to get what is your childs best interst when there is a person that only wants to work against you. The pain in your childs face when the father lets your child down, the long court battles to get him to do what is right. The pain the whole family goes through every time he acts like an idiot and tries to force your child to go to his house when he/she doesn't want to. Hind sight is 20/20 but you can never go back and fix the mistakes and the broken hearts. The only thing you can do is plung forward and hope for the best. No matter how much in love you think you are, or think that you are going to spend the rest of your life toghther, WAIT. Just WAIT. I cannot save my child from heart break, but maybe you can save your future children from it.

1 comment:

itisi said...

You are so right. Good advice. I am sorry for all your troubles with your ex. Your daughter is finding out the hard way what a jerk her father is!! It is painful for you both, I know, but it is something she has to go through to realize that no one can make him act like a real father, and hopefully, after you go to court, she won't have to see him unless she wants to. I hope their is some way that this can be resolved so you won't be harrassed and she won't be so stressed out.